How far in advance should I mail save the dates?
As a general rule, it's best to start getting your save the dates out around 6-8 months prior to the ceremony (9-12 months prior for a destination wedding or wedding that’s on a holiday weekend). This gives wedding guests plenty of time to book their travel, save money and ask for days off work.
How far in advance should I mail wedding invites?
Invitations should be sent to your guests 6-8 weeks in advance of your wedding. Invitations for destination weddings should be sent to your guests 3 months in advance of your wedding
Do I have to mail an invite to everyone I sent a save the date?
Should I have a reply-by date on the RSVP card, even if they’re just replying via our website?
Yes.
Yes, it’s important to use a “reply-by” date on your RSVP cards—this one is a biggie. Give your guests 3-4 weeks to let you know if they'll be attending. The reply-by date should be at least 2 weeks before your wedding so you can give your caterer a more accurate headcount.